Originally Posted by Polymonial
Am I turning into a slut or a pig? ;-)
Let's hear it for the sluts and the greedy little piggies! You can't overdose on love, honey.
Men are taught from birth, by our patriarchal society, to repress and hide their emotions, get them out perhaps by fighting, or hooting and hollering at a sports game once in a while. *Maybe* you're allowed to show some emotions when drunk, and blame it on the booze.
You may not feel this intensely after a while, but I'm sure honoring your wife's bisexual nature is really great for her, and your marriage. You may find yourself "falling in love" with one or several other people while on this high. Be forewarned, not all people are appropriate partners for you... some will disappoint you.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
There's no lying in polyamory!
I'm a 58 year old woman with 2 partners:
miss pixi, my live-in gf, 36 (together since Jan '09)
Ginger, bf, 61, married, lives nearby (together since Jan '12)