> Also, how do I try to talk to them more without annoying them?
Disclaimer: I'm completely new to poly myself, only a month into it, so take my opinions with a grain of salt. I'm in the NRE phase as well! ;-)
For our new triad, communication is everything. Granted, I'm sure we talk so much that it could get a little annoying at times; therefore, we try to take a break from it every now and then (so we're not always so serious about everything). But talking frequently has been a cornerstone for our relationship, and if we didn't communicate so well, the relationship would not be proceeding so smoothly.
My hope is that if they're experienced in poly relationships, then they'll know importance of talking and not be annoyed by it. Thoughts?