Originally Posted by sage
I'm not a victim in a relationship with a guy who is "getting to have his cake and eat it too" (hate that saying).
That was the proverbial straw, but the worst instance of the "poor mono" syndrome, came from the poly group that Z went to in Brisbane. They feel sorry for me too!!!
Uhhhh I HATE that as well! I'm not exactly mono though I'm not actively looking for someone. But I think because most people only know of Karma and Cricket, they give me the same lines and it drives me crazy! I am not a victim, I am the 'winner' in this situation b/c my husband gets to be himself and our marriage has never been better now that we aren't hiding from eachother.