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Old 01-03-2011, 07:46 AM
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If I were you, I would slow down. It sounds like these heady feelings have only come up while communicating online with him, and they are probably influenced by your old memories of him back in the day. You don't know for sure what the chemistry will be like when you see him face-to-face. It might not be love, or you might realize when you get there that you don't want to be in such a situation, or you don't like how he smells -- anything can get in the way. I would say, have your goal be to just see how you feel without jumping into a pre-conceived outcome. But perhaps wait to meet up with him until after he has either broken it off with the woman he lives with, or comes clean to her about you.
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