Originally Posted by NeonKaos
i think that most women are in the "monogamous" or "primary" mindset and THEY want to be the wife. A lot women of that age are starting to think about finding someone to marry and buy a house and have kids with, so of course getting involved with a married man who has no intention of leaving his wife would be a big turn-off, I would have to imagine. You have to accept that your dating pool is going to be DRASTICALLY diminished than if you were single looking for a monogamous relationship with the possibility of marriage.
Mark it on a calander, I'm about to agree with NK.
She's right. I'm finding much the same issue with men. Men my age are looking for toys, or a wife. There aren't many out there willing to "settle" for being the SO and not the spouse. They do exist, it's just hard to find.