Nycindie-blunt works for me.
I'm a strong believer that people don't need to see things eye to eye to appreciate seeing each other's perspectives.
I can use all the perspective I can get.
I wrote such a long thing-because I wrote it in my blog. I write there to work through my feelings. BUT-after I posted it, it occurred to me that I might get some good advice from people on here if I posted it here, so I just copy/pasted it here.
I am working out details of what boundaries I need for myself. I haven't figured it all out yet-but I have been working on it.
And GG and I are always working on improving our relationship.