for those of you who suffer through ALL of that reading and decide to reply-
She has no place of her own in which they can meet, so that means any over nights together, will be here. She's made it clear that she does want overnight time together and he has as well.
We have no room in this over-full house, so the only place that they CAN do that, is in our bedroom. Which means me being out of our bedroom and them being in it.
"Love As Thou Wilt"