Otherwise I am genuinely curious to understand how you feel about my original question... Especially as you do have the benefit of age and experience. If you feel you have already answered that question... would you mind rephrasing it as I seem to have missed your opinion on that topic.
On your original question, I would have to say that honesty is always the only way I would personally go, what ever the price, but only because I value the truth, The rest of my response to this post will be sent privately.
Next time, if you want a private response, please send me a private message.