LOL no that's not what I was asking - in fact is in the point of the question...
What price is acceptable to pay to keep your own integrity as a whole person...
Price - other's pain, disruption, chaos
my own pain is perfectly acceptable in my quest to be true to myself... causing pain to others in the process is not... however I can see that it is either necessary or unexpected fallout (their own issues cropping up etc)... my question is more a philosophical one - at what point do you draw the line? do you draw the line, is your integrity so important that no price is too high?
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Engaged to my sweetheart, WaterWolf