Originally Posted by marksbabygirl
I call bullshit.
There are a LOT of benefits to marriage that have nothing to do with finances.
I am not going to take the time to spell it out for you - because your views on marriage are very clear. But needless to say - if I had known 11 years ago what I'd be in for now - I'd have still married him
And financially? Nope - I am the primary financial support in our household...
I don't think my views on marriage are important or relevant. (I admit I am anti-marriage.)
What is not clear to me is how polyamory and marriage are compatible. That is, if polyamory is about long term "love" relationships -- and not just a term for a couple deciding to have multiple sexual partners outside of their marriage.