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Old 01-01-2011, 01:15 PM
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Originally Posted by SNeacail View Post
Backing up and taking things slower can be a good thing. Walls that come down too fast can be in danger of crumbling, where as if they come down bit by bit, there is time to reinforce and stabalize everything first so the entire structure doesn't come down with it.
Yeah, I'm just stopping for a while. I tried not to say anything which would totally ruin anything....but...meah. Fuck it. I probably did anyway. And at this point..............

Originally Posted by SNeacail View Post
TL you are not the only one that goes through these wild emotional highs and lows. I used to think I was damaged, I don't know anyone that could relate to how devastating a fight with someone I loved could be and how it just sends me off the deep end of despair. Don't do anything while in this mindset and don't do anything while your sick.
Too late. I already told V that I thought L and I were smothering her, and we would be backing off a bit.

Originally Posted by SNeacail View Post
Moves suck on the best of days! We have not had a move where my husband and I did not get into a MAJOR fight (we have also been married 19 years). This last one, I knew our pattern and I really tried to avoid it, but nope, major blow up. At least this last one we waited until our friends and family went home first.
Yeah, I know our pattern of the same thing...and try as I would, it made no difference. I still exploded while V was over. L and V had words also. Not exactly a happy time to say the least.

I keep trying to remember that ALL relationships have their arguments, and pitfalls. I'm TRYING to remember that it's not all going to be sunshine and roses. However, Just as L and I are stuck in our ways....So is V.
There is a lid for every pot...Sometimes even two or three...
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