weddings? Is that a normal want? well it is how we have been taught so ya. It's the mono dream. Of course it is something others want to, but it is engrained in our culture, so it is natural for someone to want this. There is no reason that if this woman works out that in a few years you could have a ceremony to join the three of you. That is done and a lovely way to seal a triad of vee... or any other configuration too.
There is much written here on this if you do a search... try a tag search for marriage, commitment... see what you find.
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