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Old 08-28-2009, 10:37 PM
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I think about this in the way that - just b/c people are poly or are interested in relationships with people in general, does not mean that every attraction or interest should be made into more than just an attraction or interest!

I like that I can tell Ouroboros of my attractions... It's actually quite fun! BUT I still don't feel the need to pursue them all- although some are realllllyyyy hott.

I like the weird, uncomfortable feelings of the unknown.... And sometimes once I know what is there, all that awesomeness is lost. I guess that is pNRE

There is value in these relationships, even if just food for thought

"just b/c you can, doesn't mean you should" - now, I know that this may not fit your situation, but I wanted to give you some way to put a positive spin on it, regardless.
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