Originally Posted by JRiverMartin
A basic rule of thumb regards "romantic" relationships is that they happen when we aren't, or have stopped, looking for them. They generally happen when we're not trying to make them happen.
This is true, I am sure, for mono and poly folk.
I, myself, find you very attractive, and doubt that you need worry about it overly much. It'll happen just as soon as you give up on it.
I couldn't agree more.... I just wish more ppl understood this. I am on the opposite side of this. I am a unicorn being persued. And getting ppl to see the best relationships are not rushed... yeah, not so easy.
This unicorn is hard to catch.