If this has been going on for some time and there has been no attempt by her to accept or better yet, understand, then I think that you are wasting your time and there is no future with her. Why waste what precious time you have in this life on those that only think of you in a negative way. Find like minded people in terms of the values you have and you can't go wrong I think. That doesn't mean they have to be poly, but have similar tolerances and acceptance of others... before you go though. Tell her this is what you intend to do. Nothing like giving the gift of honesty. It sounds like she might need a wake up call.
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