I am not very new to the idea
of being Poly, but I am new to practicing it.
Very recently, my husband and I added a boyfriend... Husband is straight... VERY straight. I am pretty sure he thought we'd be adding a woman if we ever did this, and while he is completely wonderful, I know he is a little disappointed at our lack of a girlfriend.
So yeah... I'm here for 2 things- To have like-minded people to talk to about all this, and to possibly meet a woman we 3 can find acceptable (and who likes us too ^_~ of course). I'm realistic here, I know I might not find the latter.
My Unicorn would have a great sense of humor, be a gamer-girl (specifically D&D), straight or bi, be good to my boys, and a friend to me, and fall in love with BF, NOT Husband... Possibly then turn into a swing/poly relationship.
Honestly, I'm not sure how tall that order is.
I am also okay with somebody who just wants to have fun if they are responsible.
I have been lucky in love as of late. Both Husband and BF were "found" while I wasn't seeking either. My boys are shy, so I figured I should be their wing-man. KWIM?