Originally Posted by Mohegan
Because I feel your response was rude, made a lot of assumptions and had little to do with the questions posed.
I'll disagree with that assessment of the response being rude. Asking hard questions/making the hard observations are not, of themselves, rude, so I don't see any problem with that. I also don't see any problems with the way in which the concerns were presented, so I'm having a difficult time figuring out how the message was supposedly rude.
It did speak to something not on topic, however, as your OP asked for discussion on bio or adoption should you choose to have a child. Because it's not dealing with the indicated topic and you apparently don't wish to expand the discussion to include it, then I'll ask everybody to drop that line of discussion now
. (Keeps me from having to clean up the thread later after everybody has thrown food around the lunch room....)