Originally Posted by NeonKaos
Polyamory is about loving people, not about loving logistics.
I am sure there are people in ldr's who like the distance for those two reasons, but I bet most don't. I bet those same people like those same things in local relationships but don't have the social ability to create their own space or time. So long distance is easier for them.
People who suck at mono,poly,ld, live-in, bdsm, monkey sex, casual sex....will suck at every relationship. Poor relationships are built on the backs of people who suck at relationships. Not the relationship style itself. Some are most definitely harder than others...but all relationships take work.