Originally Posted by preciselove
Am I the only one after having done LDR for 9+ months that gets a shiver down the spine if the thought I have to do it again comes up?
I can understand how some people that love their space can love LDRs, it's like having a relationship you can put on hold. But personally I'd rather be put in a coma for 6 months than do a 6 month LDR.
I quite enjoy long distance, as long as that distance isn't too long. I like to be able to see the people I love often. Unfortunately, I have a lot of really close friends that are even in other countries and such. But if you love them, the struggle is worth it. As long as I get to be with them one day.
If it is made obvious that we can't live together, I'd make sure I was out of there. I make it clear to everyone from the start that living together, as long away as it ever might be, is an important thing for me.