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Old 12-27-2010, 06:26 PM
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That's interesting, maybe I have to rethink their relationship. The line between intimacy and sexuality is very blurry. They don't "roll around", they cuddle and the kisses aren't open-mouthed. She considers herself celibate and holds a boundary around their physical closeness.

I suppose I use this to mitigate the fall-out when I explain the situation to others. "They love each other but it's non-sexual" is an easier way for me to accept their relationship and to come-out. It's also easier for her to get her head around. I think she would still be very uncomfortable if it was put to her that her relationship with Z is sexual.
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