I'm not really *expecting* anything to happen, and I'm certainly not a desperate pervert looking to get laid ASAP. I wouldn't want or expect sex on the first date if I was dating a single woman, but with a poly couple I really don't know what to expect. It's a little scary. I have very little dating experience to begin with, but it must be a completely different social dynamic with the husband being there. I just want them to like me... I don't want to commit some kind of serious blunder that would offend them.
Part of what makes me nervous is that the husband is bisexual, and I'm still not sure if I would ever be down for that or not. I've never been with a man. I've never been with anyone, except for my wife.
I'm absolutely planning on being mild, respectful, and easygoing about things. I'm really just there to make friends. I just feel like I need to have some kind of defense ready because there's two of them and only one of me. Does that make any sense?