Originally Posted by vodkafan
Somegeezer you got the grammar right. If you think about it it only makes sense that way. I don't know when people started saying it the other way.
As far as I know, it started as an ironic statement, but then people starting using either of them interchangeably, possibly without looking too much into it.
Me: 32F, straight
Seamus: My husband, 33M, straight
Fox: My boyfriend, 30M, homoflexible
Dragon: Fox's husband (and my ex), 30M, pansexual