Ok, I am one of the people who view sex as a necessity. I feel, that without sex, a relationship is a simple friendship. There is no love in it.
Please...Keep in mind that this is just how I feel....Not that I am trying to say that is the only way.
When my wife and I go for a period of time longer than 2 weeks without sex, I feel very depressed and very distant. I feel like she is looking for it elsewhere, and I'm not good enough or whatever.
She tells me that, she could take it or leave it, when it comes to sex. She doesn't "need" sex.
I've heard this from other women also in reference to sex....Not just sex with ME, but just in reference to having sex...period....
So, I ask...What are your views toward sex?