I sometimes forget to take his depression into account. I haven't really seen him "down" as the medication he takes seems to do be doing it's job. I do understand that this can be a tough time of year for him and I hope that I can support him through ups & downs. I've been reading alot about depression, trying to understand what he needs and what, if anything, I can do.
I feel so inexperienced when it comes to much of this, I've only got the relationship I have with my husband to compare. And I can't really compare very much as each of my relationships with them is unique.
I think after the stress of the holidays winds down, I would like to find out what some of my bf's aspirations\plans are. Perhaps we have some common goals that we can help each other with