Originally Posted by Erin
I'm curious... how do you know you can not only make it work, but work good? I am poly in a mono relationship... and I am miserable. Please, share your thoughts
hi Erin, I've posted quite a lot in a couple of mono threads in the general discussion section (sorry I am crap at links and things) But I would point you to sages blog and Redpeppers posts too. Lot of sensible stuff in there.
I would say that my relationship with my wife has essentially not changed greatly from my point of view; I am still mono and I am not doing anything contrary to my nature. We both benefit from increased self knowledge I suppose.