Originally Posted by MonoVCPHG
I know plenty of guys I won't broach the topic with just because of thier macho homophobic personalities. I mention homophobic because although I am not bi-sexual, to many guys I know sleeping with Redpepper who in turn sleeps with other men is equivalent to a homosexual act. Stupid I know, but the case none the less.
I don't like to quote myself but as a side note..this is a huge "external" factor that I believe holds some straight guys back from exploring poly.
The judgement of others is only overcome by truly feeling that something is right for you and having enough love to support that position internally.