Originally Posted by SourGirl
Actually Somegeezer, I`ve never had any men in my life, that care for me, who haven`t offered a MFM type dealio. All are straight in orientation too. They are givers and pleasers, and enjoy fulfilling my fantasies. It can be a very loving , giving, act.
Funny thing though, outside of the bed I am not comfortable doing the affection-between-all scenario. I`d just rather not.
I`m working on it, as I realize I need to find some compromise in this area. So I will follow this topic with interest.
I figured someone would have a lot of experience with the opposite. It's cool that you have found men like that too. I'm not one of them personally. I can admire a good looking man, but I do not want to be joining in with sex. I wouldn't mind sleeping in the same bed though. Say I was in a V with a female hinge [I think I'm using the correct terms!] and She wanted to sleep in the same bed with the both of us. I'd have no problem.
I would be comofortable with showing affection outside. I couldn't care about people looking and feeling weird about it. Even if i had multiple partners. What business is it of the public? Is is my happiness and the happiness of my partners that matters. If THEY were uncomfortable with it is the only time I would stop myself.
I am very interested in this topic myself as you might have seen. =P It's enjoyable to talk about.