Actually Somegeezer, I`ve never had any men in my life, that care for me, who haven`t offered a MFM type dealio. All are straight in orientation too. They are givers and pleasers, and enjoy fulfilling my fantasies. It can be a very loving , giving, act.
Funny thing though, outside of the bed I am not comfortable doing the affection-between-all scenario. I`d just rather not.
I`m working on it, as I realize I need to find some compromise in this area. So I will follow this topic with interest.