Originally Posted by FlameKat
LOL - we are a confusing bunch to be sure...
try doing a tag search on the terms 'triad' and 'v' or 'vee'... just to have a look through the differences for a starter.
personally I am not sure I would want to be involved or have both partners involved when being intimate - thats a pretty personal thing and up to each of you within your relationships...
you could also try a tag search on 'unicorn' as that is the most common term for what you seem to be looking for. From what I have read on here it's a pretty rare beast to find
Also tag-search "third partner".