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Old 12-22-2010, 04:08 AM
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I won't define my relationship as a V or a Triad because there are 4 of us involved to varying degrees with each other (2 married couples - 3 poly, one emotionally mono). My boyfriend was my husband and my best friend for years before he became my lover and as a cuddly, flirtatious person I am, he got used to me hugging and cuddling him and sitting in his lap.... while my husband was always used to seeing that behavior from me. I have made out with my husband infront of my boyfriend and vice versa and feel comfortable showing affection to each of them infront of the other. On the other hand, I'm comfortable hugging my boyfriend and his wife, but have only kissed him once infront of her and for now kissing her is off the table for everyone but her husband (her request).
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