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Old 12-21-2010, 08:00 PM
TruckerPete TruckerPete is offline
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Originally Posted by Calisolara View Post
Unfortunately the messages have popped up when I have been using the phone with his permission and people text at the wrong time. Another message came through when his phone was sitting next to me on the couch. He also tells me when his phone starts blowing up its his friend in the other state. He doesn't answer her texts when he is with me and he gets a goodnight text at 1 am when we are going to bed. I am not that oblivious not to notice what is going on.

I have actually asked a few times if everything is okay and he has said yes its fine, just difficult at the moment. I am going to have to get some courage and just be blunt. I thought I could just wait it out through the holidays and wait for some of the other stress in my life to die down but it's not looking like I can do that.
In case you didn't notice, I do tend to vote for bluntness.

Having ruled out you being a snoopy snooper, then yes, it sounds like you need a real sit down conversation with him.
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