I'm loving all the responses here... ! I had no idea that the link I posted would be of such interest. I'm glad.
For the record there is nothing like a knowledgeable, confident, round and fun lovin' person. grrr....
Someone who knows themselves and is willing to give and be given too all in the realm of exploration and open communication is what excites me.
The size of their structure is somewhat of an issue as I like to be able to pin them down and I am 145 lbs 5'2" that is not easily accomplished sometimes unless the person is willing to submit.
so ya, attitude is everything.