Originally Posted by gwendolenthefair
I have found that it is very easy to "catch" most men who are pretending to be poly in order to find sex with a poly woman. A simple "What is a book about polyamory that you have read, or hope to read?" or "What's the name of our national organization?" will usually leave them flailing.
You could ask me the same questions and I wouldn't know the answers.... not because I'm not poly (I have been for years) but because I've only just found the poly world/ community outside my relationships. What I've learned about poly has come from mostly from a cousin who is poly and my textbooks (I have a BS in Child and Family Studies).