Originally Posted by nycindie
That makes sense to me. If I knew there was as much respect for safety and boundaries in swinging as I am learning there is in BDSM, I might try swinging. As it appears to me now, in the sense I get from people I know, there is no appeal in swinging for me.
I can't say in every lifestyle community that there is a lack of respect and boundaries. I think the idea is more that the individual value the two... the thing is, and as far as I know from my experience, there isn't the same kind of attention and care as there is in the BDSM community... I am making a HUGE generalization, I know that... if anyone wants to call me out on this I am welcome to it. I need a bit of clarity on it all myself.