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Old 12-19-2010, 08:46 PM
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Originally Posted by SourGirl View Post
I cannot even agree that MOST men are douchebags. Thats a cop-out.
Here, here! I agree wholeheartedly.

It takes two to keep a war going, but only one to stop it.

So, if there's a war between the sexes going on in my life, I look around and ask what I am doing to keep it going. And why I attract certain types of people and treatment. It's up to me to stop that war and not tolerate behaviors that result in my feeling less-than or taken advantage of.
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