Well it seems you're on the same track as me. My advice would be to let them be and just get out now... Find someone who appreciates you and can be bothered to give you the time you need. Tell them politely it's just not what you want and wish them luck in the future. Being nice is a great way to piss them off for what they did whilst still being the good guy throughout. ;]
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