Originally Posted by Lemondrop
Easy says he doesn't care, I can be how I am and it doesn't matter if people accept me. How important are appearances?
Thats all that matters. Even if you are really concerned about appearances, you could subjugate the distain to your dom. He should be able to explain you aren't 24/7 or however he wants to phrase it.
There will always be zealots, or 24/7's or people really living the twue life. If thats not how you play, don't worry about them