To you both.
It's hard to find that thin line that makes it work. I understand completely, we're in the midst of a similar struggle.
Where is the line between open and honest, and respectfully not rubbing something in the face of someone who doesn't wish to be a part of that something....
(I wrote it that vaguely on purpose-NOT pointedly).
I just wanted to say I'm so proud of you both for working through the emotions and circumstances together and continuing to battle together to find the workable solution.
"Love As Thou Wilt"