Anything is possible I reckon. Never in my wildest dreams did I think I would have a husband at one point, as I identified as a lesbian for about 10 years... then all of a sudden I found I was married, with child, had a house and car, a career. It happened because I created it. Then I got a live in boyfriend (Mono), then a girlfriend (Derby) and other partners and lovers too... all because I worked towards that with as much integrity and love as I could muster.
You can create whatever works for you. It's up to you to start. It might not be fast, but it will happen. The trick, I have found is to have no expectation and to allow what fate has in store be apart of what I create.
I suggest that you do some reading here for a bit to see what others have achieved and to get some practical ideas about how to go about your journey. Have a look at tags and stickies and see what you find.
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