I don't think you've failed. Its more like your confidence is low and why shouldn't it be, its your first go around.
If she wasn't texting then perhaps you could of texted her or agreed to every second day maybe... The negotiation should of continued I reckon, complete with expressing how you feel and what needs you need met and requests of how she and you could work on that. A lot of what went on seems to be about her getting through her NRE and coming to a place of balance. That takes time and work, all doable though. Any new person creates imbalance in a tribe.
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