Originally Posted by sunflowershower
I feel your pain with OKC. It's rather difficult finding anyone on there. However, I have found a way that makes it a little easier. Basically, when I look at someone's profile, I go to the questions they've answered. There's one that says "Would you ever consider becoming involved in a long term three person relationship?" And if they say "yes" and I like their profile, I might message them. I know it sounds a little far to go maybe with looking, but myself, I don't like rejection or judgement, so the easier I can feel about sending a message, the better. And it helps filter out all those people who seem to think we are some kind of freaks or something. Anyway, I hope this helps a little!!
I used to do that also. And if I REALLY thought they were good looking or a good match, and they said "NO" to that question, I would message them anyway.