I guess I don't understand what i was supposed to do. She would ask me what I needed to make all of this OK, and I would say things like "still see me once a week and continue daily electronic contact (text, email, etc) and when I need something extra I will ask for it."
As she increased the amount of time with the other guy, the electronic contact slowed down and eventually ceased. When it ceased, I asked her to resume it, and she did for a few days before reducing it and ceasing it again.
So on the one hand you guys think I was too possessive, but on the other hand I wasn't assertive enough? These things seem contradictory to me.