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Old 12-15-2010, 03:17 AM
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Originally Posted by StrangerinKS View Post
Well part of the problem was that I felt the boundaries kept shifting without any negotation or discussion. Each week we would meet, she would change a boundary unilaterally without asking me, just presenting it as a fact. At least that is how I felt. As soon as I would adjust, she would change it again, until I finally couldn't take it any more
I am curious - can you share some examples?
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