No problem flamekat. Good question.
I am used to telling PN everything, so I'm not used to monitoring. I don't mind doing that if Mono is not interested in knowing what I do. It keeps me safe to know that if I have to tell him then I have to live with the consequence of going over a boundary we have together. I monitor myself with that. I will find a different way to monitor.
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