Just about everyone on here... has dealt with this in one way or another...
Having figured out that its okay for me to be this way - I don't know if I can accept not being poly... for anyone. My relationships are my choice - how I behave in them is my choice - whether my partner can live with that and accept that (with my love and support) is up to him...(them if we get there :P)
being respectful of your girlfriend will always need to be your number 1 priority... and keep talking... don't hide it, acknowledge who you are... otherwise it will build up and explode
Smile! It makes people wonder what you've been up to
Engaged to my sweetheart, WaterWolf