The TMI and DADT, while doesn't surprise me - it does surprise me that it is a factor here with Mono and Redpepper, - I kind of get it like there is a point after which you simply want things to remain vague and unconfirmed Mono?
You don't want the details because it isn't healthy for you emotionally or mentally to know?
(Sorry Redpepper if I'm hijacking btw)
Is this something the two of you work on together to stretch in you Mono (as RP seems to have a need to talk to you about these experiences) or something that you both recognise is a no-go zone either for now - or for all time?
Smile! It makes people wonder what you've been up to
Engaged to my sweetheart, WaterWolf