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Old 12-14-2010, 10:17 PM
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Originally Posted by redpepper View Post
I don't see why you needed to break up . . . There is no reason you had to give up your once a week and be in her life with less texts etc. You could of requested that when you see her for a weekly date . . . it sounds like you were on the verge of that and then threw the baby out with the bathwater . . .
I agree with RP on this. I actually was going to add something about that to my post, but didn't for some reason. I think you two could still work it out and continue with the relationship, but you have to deal with your insecurities and know what the parameters are. Plus focus on what you have with her, not what she has with him or anyone else.
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