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Old 12-14-2010, 06:23 PM
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Originally Posted by SvartSvensk View Post
I'm going to leave the ball in her court; if she really likes me and wants to meet me, she'll show a little effort. If not, then it ain't worth troubling myself over.
Actually, I agree. I am always skeptical of meeting people online. There is always the chance that someone is excited about the anonymous aspect of it and can really get into chats, messages, or phone calls but then chickens out when it's time to meet face-to-face. I feel it is impractical to get your hopes up too much or start imagining a future before you see the real person live and in the flesh. So, yeah, if she contacts you again, I would think it prudent to express your doubts and gauge her response. Then see how you feel about making arrangements and act accordingly, without hanging too much hope on it.
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