Yeah, I'd be skeptical too. It does sound a lot like stringing along. But don't let paranoia get hold of you. It might just be huge coincidence. I think leaving the ball in her court is certainly a good idea. That way, you don't have anything to mess up and can't get hurt too bad if she never plans anything compared to you making all the plans and her never going by them. I'm sure you'll meet someone who doesn't have a lot of problems going on and will have a lot of time to be with you though.
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