Wow...Mono...wow. Now I am scared all of a sudden. I thought I was working it out and then I got your response. THANK YOU by the way...please don't take it that I don't appreciate your response. I truely do....it just opened up my eyes to the other side of things. Seeing both sides is ALWAYS helpful. Now I have to take a step back and re-think my discussion.
What would your idea be of something NOT to say to him? I am thinking about in terms of in your ex-wife situation. Is there something she couldn't said that would have made it easier to swallow for you?